She's Just Not That Into You!

I actually get embarrassed for some men who chase their tails when it comes to women, who have NO clue what they’re doing wrong or when they should stop the pursuit before they get labelled as a ‘lend’ or ‘stalker’ and it’s pretty much downhill from there for them.

I do acknowledge us women to be complicated creatures and more so often, we pin it on the guy. But for one human race to remain sane, I put together a list of signs/ hints/ messages for men, which indicate that the woman is just not into them. So they may as well give up the chase and pursue another who will actually appreciate all the effort!

Also note- women do like to play games, but at the same time the ones interested love to be chased! So if you play it cool guy with a girl who’s keen, she WILL lose interest in you eventually. Yes we are complicated creatures, but that's what takes the boredom out of this world!

So here goes:

• She takes too long to reply to your messages.
• Doesn't return your call for 2 whole days.
• Politely nods during your conversation, but seems distracted.
• Reluctantly gives you her phone number but always seems busy when you contact her.
• Makes excuses every time you ask her out.
• Discusses other boys with you.
• Moves back when you lean in to kiss her on the cheek.
• Makes an excuse to walk away at a party after 5 minutes of conversation.
• Tries to set you up with her friends (chances are she could be making you jealous, but look for other signs then listed above).
• Doesn't flirt back or bat her eyelashes at you.
• Doesn't ever call or message you first.
• If you manage to get her out on a date, keeps checking her watch and ends the date early.
• Ignores your Facebook friend request or doesn't reply to your Facebook messages.
• Asks you to bring your cute friends to a party (and doesn’t mention it’s for her friends!).
• Calls you her brother occasionally.
• Ruffles your hair affectionately or pinches your cheeks.

If you see some or all of these signs in a girl you like, honey it’s bad news- She’s just not that into you! Don't waste time hanging around. Move on! You'll not only push her away, but the chances of you staying friends will be bleak.

The chase is fun, but chase the right woman who might reciprocate instead of dating a wall. And save yourself the embarrassment of different labels, which usually go around, because women talk!

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